The “New” Flat
Although I am about five months late with these, I’ve put up photos of the flat I moved into after Christmas. I met my new roommates Mary and Heather through Erin (Mary and Erin have a mutual friend – small world) and they actually happened to live in the little “neighborhood” of my previous flat. I could probably jump from the balcony of flat #1 onto the balcony of flat #2 – they are that close. I really love the new flat and roommates (although Heather has since moved to the Philippines - we miss her very much – and Jobien has moved in). My room is huge, with big windows and a balcony. It’s been so nice to stay in the same location, which is very close to pretty much all of the places I go to on an average day.
The Gym
Speaking of an average day, I also included some photos of my trusty bicycle and my gym. V.I.P. gym is very unlike any other gym I’ve ever seen. It sits above an open-air parking garage and is one big room with treadmills, free weights, and weight machines. There is no A/C (makes exercise INTENSE in the hot season) – just many open windows, some of which look out over tennis courts. I love all of the little birds that hang out in there while I'm working out. I’m pretty sure that the floor will one day collapse – it shakes violently underneath us if there are people on treadmills. The gym also contains three fat-jiggling machines, which are in very frequent use (?!). While there are a few Westerners at the gym, the vast majority of patrons are Khmers. Within this group, most of the women present walk at a snail’s pace on treadmills, many times in dresses and heels. It’s a pretty interesting place and I love it.
School Visit with RDI
Several months ago I went out on a school trip with the RDI education group. They visit schools several times a week, using puppets, activities, and games to teach school children about hand-washing and safe water. They also provide ceramic water filters for each classroom and to each teacher (for home use) and give a training course to the teachers on proper use of the filters. Although everything was in Khmer, I really enjoyed seeing the children and how great RDI staff are with them. It also showed me the grim reality of schools in Cambodia – overcrowded classrooms, extremely underpaid teachers, and lack of safe water and basic sanitation in schools.
Khmer Wedding
My roommate Mary is a swim coach for the Cambodian National Swim Team and was recently invited to a wedding of another coach’s son. When asked if she would bring a guest, she invited me! I was thrilled – I have heard a lot of stories about traditional Khmer weddings and couldn’t wait to check one out! Weddings here are taken very seriously and have many interesting traditions. First, guests get VERY dressed up. And by this I mean…sequins and inch-thick makeup. Mary and I didn’t take it that far, but we did get our hair done at a Khmer beauty shop. The wedding took place on this road lined with wedding banquet halls. There were at least six other weddings going on at the same time, each with hundreds of people. I can’t go into all of the details about Khmer weddings - I really have no idea because everything going on is in Khmer. However, I can note a few general observations:
-When you arrive you greet the groom and members of the family and are then escorted to a table.
-Once your table is full, servers start bringing food and drinks. Tables are all at various courses in the meal and food is continuously provided. This goes on for hours.
-Women usually don’t drink alcohol, but men do. And apparently, Western women are highly encouraged to drink – they just KEPT bringing drinks to us. At one point Mary and I each had five unopened beers in front of us. The men at the table kept offering cheers, in attempt to make us drink. Thank goodness they drink beer with ice in it – the constantly melting ice diluted the drinks and provided a nice stall tactic.
-There is a least one table of naughty, rowdy, drunk Khmer boys.
-The bride and groom are actually married in a separate, private ceremony. The reception pretty much involves them appearing several times in different and extremely accessorized outfits.
-There is very loud karaoke and a live band.
-The bride and groom walk down a red carpet during which guests through flower petals at them, then spray them down with silly string.
-Hours of Khmer dancing takes place around and around the center table.
At one point, Mary and I were ushered to the head table, where we were again encouraged to eat and drink. It was kind of strange to be treated as honored guests at the wedding (we were the only Westerners present), especially because I had never met any of them before, but was also really fun. After the bride and groom cut the cake and drank champagne, they began their first dance together. As if in some strange movie, Mary was asked to dance by the groom’s brother alongside the bride and groom. A few minutes in, and I was set-up with a dance partner by the bride’s mother. For a veerrrryyy long couple of minutes, it was just the six of us up there while hundreds watched.

